Passive-aggressive behaviors are crazy-making. You're not happy within yourself if you are passive-aggressive. You get frustrated and infuriated when others are passive-aggressive, right?
Sometimes, you cannot quite put your finger on what the issue is. That's what today's podcast is all about: recognizing how passive-aggressive behaviors show up.
Do you recognized any of these behaviors? In your spouse.... or maybe, in yourself??
You could be pushing away the most important people in your life.
Understanding and recognizing what passive-aggressive behavior looks like could change everything...
These are the things that passive aggressive people always do, but they don't realize that they're doing it, often, and the results of doing it would mean that you might be left angry and alone and shaking your head. So I wanted to give you a few ideas and if this stimulates your thinking.
So how do you know if you're passive aggressive?
Well, maybe people think you're difficult to be around. Maybe they don't trust you, maybe they don't respect you in the way you wish they would. And it kind of leaves you shaking your head.
Well, the truth is that you may be exhibiting passive aggressive behaviors that just totally confused people. And when people are confused, they get turned off and they want to walk away from you.
So I wanted to help you make sense of these behavior traits because they can be confusing... and the people who are experiencing you as a passive aggressive person, or who you are experiencing as a passive aggressive person, leave. You're shaking your head, wondering if you're safe, not wanting to get close, feeling the person's a little too prickly for you, and if you're in relationship with that person, it's your mother, your partner, somebody at work who is always that way.
You're going to see the negative results of that. So I'm going to give you a straight forward list today. 12 things which indicate that passive aggressive behavior is part of the program for that person or for you.
I am Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor.
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